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  • So long Heath Ledger

       I couldn't believe it when I heard this morning that young actor Heath Ledger died yesterday in his New York City apartment. He was such a talented actor and while I didn't like his choice of a few roles ("Brokeback Mountain" for one) I did admire his looks and talent. My favorite roles were the ones where he played pony-tailed hot-headed but humourous gentlemen like in "A Knight's Tale" and "The Patriot". How sad that he died so young. It just goes to show you that you never know when your time will come.

    If you were to die tonight, do you know where you'd spend eternity?

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    Heath Andrew Ledger
    April 4, 1979 - January 22, 2008

  • Happy Birthday to Me!

    I had a pretty good birthday yesterday. The good wishes started on Sunday when several people at church gave me cards. One couple I am particularly fond of presented me theirs personally instead of setting it on the table where cards are usually left for people to pick up. He always calls me "kiddo." "Happy birthday tomorrow, Kiddo," he says. "You are going to be 21, right." We both laughed and I said, "Yeah, times 2."

    On of my friends sent me a bouqet of very fragrant roses to the office. They make the office smell soooo good. We went to dinner last night with my in-laws, my best friend and her husband. That was loads of fun. The food was soooo good. There was no room for the free birthday dessert, so we didn't even ask for it. In hindsight, I wish we had and brought it home. I just love their white chocolate raspberry cheesecake. As it is, we still brought leftovers home. I had a captain's platter, which consisted of four succulent broiled scallops, three large crisp fried shrimp and two large fillets of parmesan crusted tilapia. MMMMMmmmmm. It was a really good time.

    I was a little disappointed that not one of the kids called. I did hear from my sister and two of my brothers and my sister-in-law. All-in-all, it was a good day.

    I needed a good day after the weekend we had. The tech area at work is in shambles at the moment. The employees called us Saturday morning to let us know we had no hot water at work. The cold was running, so John didn't sweat it too badly. We came up in the early afternoon, right before the store actually closed, with a space heater in hand and aimed it toward an outside wall where the water pipes froze last year. The landlord always hires the absolutely cheapest people to fix things and last year he didn't bother fixing it right when it froze then, apparently. At that time, his solution was to put a vent in the wall to help heat get up in there. It only took about 10 minutes of the space heater blowing before it thawed, and started spewing inside the wall, running out of that little vent and all over my tech room floor. We scrambled to get the boxes of paper and the computers up off the floor. It took John about 45 minutes to mop up the lake that it caused while I called someone for help.

    I told the building manager I didn't want that same plumber out there because he obviously doesn't fix things right. She said she calls who the landlord tells her to call. I offered her my cell phone number so she could call me back as soon as she got hold of someone, but she said she was driving and didn't have the time to take it down. So I hung up with her and I called the landlord, who happens to live in balmy Florida now. I told him that I didn't want that same guy, and he said it was probably the only person he could get to come out on the weekend. Unfortunatlely, the whole building is on the same water line so the tennant in the apartment at the end would be without water all weekend if we waited until Monday, and that wouldn't be acceptable.

    About 10 minutes later, someone shows up banging on the door. He says he's there about the broken water line, so we let him in. THANKFULLY, it's not the same guy that the landlord normally calls. I go back into the back office to deal with some other things while John deals with the contractor, who assesses the situation and tells us he's got his plumber coming over soon. Not long after the contractor's plumber gets there, the OLD plumber shows up. He's upset because he got called out to the job and someone else was already there. I'm saying, "Thank God," someone else showed up first.

    After all is said and done, they discover that a huge part of the problem is when this old plumber (who, it turns out, the other plumbers in town refer to as Red Green because the guy has actually duct taped a water pipe before), when the old plumber replaced the water heater a couple of years ago, instead of cutting off the old line and tapping it into the new line he had to put in to connect to the new water heater, he simply shoved the pipes up into the ceiling, which put a bend in the pipes that run along the very-poorly insulated outside wall. Where the down pipe bows it now *touches* the outside wall, and picks up the frigid air and freezes.

    We now have new water lines in - really cool rubber hose kind of lines that will swell four times their size before they break so the risk of bursting when they freeze is minimal. The new guy also put some of that gray foam stuff around the pipe so it's insulated. The old plumber last year just tore some of the insulation out of the wall and stuffed it around the colder area, basically rearranging the fiberglass insulation.

    I still have a hole in my wall where the paneling was taken down to access the pipes. The contractor is supposed to be in today to finishe fixing it, and then we can put our tech room back in order.

    The building manager came by yesterday while I was out to the bank. Apparently she's mad, too, because I called the landlord directly and he yelled at her because she called someone besides the guy he normally calls. These people also own a few Subway restaurants around here and apparently they've had some other plumbing issues because of this old guy. If she would have just told me that she had someone else she could have called in instead of telling me she calls whoever the landlord says to call, I'd have never bothered calling the landlord. John told her that's the reason I called the landlord. She sounded like she couldn't deal with it right away and was going to call the same old guy in. Now I'm waiting to hear back from the landlord and get chewed out for it. I'm wondering if his plumber didn't bill him for the call. I'm going to tell the landlord if he wouldn't hire the cheapest guy in town every time it would actually save him money because he wouldn't have to constantly have things redone.

    Anyway, thanks to those of you who offered me birthday wishes. It was nice to have a good day in the midst of all that chaos.

  • Look Ma, no cavities

    I went to the dentist yesterday for the first time in 16+ years. Surprisingly, I had no cavities. I had a lot of tartar that needed cleaning, which has led to early periodontal issues at the gum line on a few of my teeth, but for the most part, it was a pretty good report, especially considering how long it's been since I avoided the dental chair.

    I do NOT like going to the dentist. I never have and therefore have avoided it as much as possible. I can truly remember only two times going to the dentist when I was a kid. Once was in 2nd grade when I had 2 cavities filled, and once was in junior high. The dentist counted 4 fillings in my mouth, so I must have had 2 filled that second time. The last time I was at the dentist before this was to have my wisdom teeth removed. That was right after John and I had started dating because he was the one who drove me to the hospital and back. We will be celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary this summer. They didn't clean my teeth at that time, so it's probably been more like 25 or 30 years since they were professionally cleaned. Yet I have ZERO cavities.

    The dentist did say that there seems to be an anomoly that patients with a lot of tartar don't usually have very many cavities. That leads me to wonder if it's because the tartar is covering the teeth where most of the bacteria that eats your enamel sits, and therefore protects your teeth. It will be interesting to see how many cavities I start to develop once I start going to the dentist for regular check-ups now.

    For those of you interested, here's what my new ride looks like. This one is not of my actual car. I searched the Internet for a pic, but this is indeed what it looks like. The color is called officially Sandstone Metallic, but it's listed as beige on many websites.

    Impala

  • Happy Birthday!!!

    Happy Birthday to Ann, my baby sister.

    You truly are my gift from God!

    Also happy anniversary (Jan. 11) to Ann and her husband Daniel. Our lives have also been blessed by his presence.

  • Caucuses, cars and birthdays

    The Iowa caucuses have come and gone, and the political ads along with them. I'm thankful to not have to listen to politicians tell us why the other guys are not who we want to vote for.

    This was my very first caucus. As I explained earlier, we've lived here nearly 12 years, missing the 1996 caucus by a couple of weeks. For one reason or another, I never managed to make it to one before this. I guess the Democrats and Republicans each run theirs a little differently. We attended the Republican caucus. They gave people the opportunity to speak about why he or she supported a particular candidate before we voted by secret ballot. They simply passed out slips of paper and we wrote down the name of the person we wanted to put up for president. Then, we had a few people count the names, and I got to be the one who called them in to the state.  It lasted a couple of hours between the speaking and the voting, and they elected delegates to represent our precinct at the county Republican convention and voted on whether to pass a couple of items up the chain - like supporting research for prevention of chronic diseases (which stemmed a lot of discussion as to whether it would include stem cell research) and whether we supported the state making our sheriffs issue concealed weapons permits if the applicant met certain requirements. Currently, concealed weapons permits in Iowa are completely at the discretion of the county sheriff. If we have a lenient one this term, he might issue them where a more conservative one may decide no one qualifies for a concealed weapon unless they are law enforcement. It was a bit of a debate with that one, too, particularly with arguements about if it were at the state level then there would be a database of who owned handguns and that much closer to taking away our 2nd amendement right to bear arms. It was interesting, though. We had more than twice the number of people show up than what normally do in our precinct, and we didn't get started on time because there were still 70 or 80 people in line to register when the doors closed at 7 p.m.

    We did end up buying our Impala last weekend. I *love* it!!!! There are a few small dings in it, and one of the backlights in the dash board is out (the one that lights up the driver's side heat/air control) but otherwise, it's in great condition. It's getting excellent gas mileage and I do love driving it. The dual-side heat/air control is great because I'm usually hot and John's usually cold and now he can have the hot air blowing on him without it burning me out. I realize it all mingles in the end, but at least I don't have to have the heat blowing right on me. I am having to get used to being that low to the ground again, and the clearance is quite a bit lower than the Jimmy. I keep scraping the underside of the bumper on the ground when I come down a hill onto the flat ground. John says it's because I go to fast, but I practically crawled out of the Hardee's drive thru the other day and still scraped bottom.

    We have given up on flying down to Texas to see the kids and grandkids. Even though I really don't want to put that many miles on my Impala that soon, John thinks it would be more cost effective this time to drive it down. In a way, that's good because I'm thinking we can plan a side trip to see my mom on the way. We haven't seen her in over a year now and I need some mommy time. My son, who is the daddy of the newest grandbaby, asked me today if we could plan to be there for his birthday. I asked him why it was so important that we be there for that and he said that he could not remember one birthday where his dad and I were around for it. He was 3 when his dad and I married and we moved away from Texas a little over a year later, so truly, I have only been there for one birthday. We always got the kids in the summer and the girls have their birthdays in the summer so we've been able to be with them on their birthdays at least a few times, but because Micah's is in February, we've never had the opportunity to have him since we moved away from Texas. It was quite a poignant request so I will indeed plan to be there for his birthday. It pulled my heart strings when he told me that.

    My birthday is coming up in a couple of weeks. I'll be 42 and am starting to feel my age (if not older). I didn't have a problem with turning 40 a couple of years ago, but now it's bothering me just a little. I shouldn't let it. Having survived cancer, I should look at each year as a gift and not stress about how much gray is in my hair or how old my hands are starting to appear. I'm sure the only reason I'm not starting to see crow's feet around my eyes yet is that I'm fat and it fills in under the skin keeping those pesky wrinkles at bay.

  • My favorite Christmas gifts

    I hope everyone had a very pleasant Christmas. Mine was.

    Let me start off by saying that I realize this blog may sound a bit materialistic, but it honestly is not meant to be. The greatest gift I have EVER received was the gift of salvation that Jesus Christ gave me with his death and resurrection. But I did get a few neat things for Christmas I'd like to share with you. 

    My husband made me cry with his gift. It was more precious than the gold and gems he's given me in the past because I know he put a lot of thought into it. When he asked me what I wanted for Christmas, I rattled off a few smaller things that I'd like to have, nothing elaborate, and one of them was the latest Harry Potter movie that just came out on DVD. I am a huge Harry Potter fan and don't know what was going on that I didn't make it to the theater when it came out this summer. I think maybe we were down south visiting with Baby Cherry when she was born and missed it when it came to the theater here. Anyway, wrapped up with "Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix" was "It's a Wonderful Life." John hates that movie. I burned him out on it when we first got together by watching it three to four times a season. Everytime it was on television when I was at home, I was watching it. Since then, they don't play it as often and I usually miss it anymore. This year, I caught the tail end of it but watched what was left with wrapt attention, recited some of the lines and cried at the end like I do every year. So, when I opened that present, I bawled with joy, because I know he's going to gripe everytime I go to watch that movie, but he gave it to me because he knows how much I love it. It is my most favorite movie in the whole wide world. *BIG GRIN*

    My daughter also gave me a custom-made bag with a photo of Baby Cherry on it. It's got some jeweled cherries on it as well as the words "Grandma". I really love it and have shown it off to everyone.

    We had a nice dinner at John's sister's house with her new husband. His brother was there with his new girlfriend and her kids. We really liked them. He was divorced earlier this year from a lady who never wanted to come to family events on his side of the family, so it was nice to have him there with her. She and I were on the same team playing Taboo and she ROCKED at it. She was so good at giving clues and picked up well on my clues, too. One of my nephews was on our team with us as well.

    We are under a snow advisory today. If the snow isn't too bad, we're hoping to drive up to Newton this afternoon (about 40 minutes away) to look at a 2002 Impala they have on the lot that's within the right price range for the bank to loan me the money on it. I've already requested preapproval from the bank and should hear back from them this morning. Our truck has a leak in the heater coil (or is it core?) and when I called the mechanic, they said it will cost nearly $600 to repair. It has a lot of other problems that need fixed, too, including the brakes which cost me nearly $800 last time I had to have them done, sooooo, it's time to junk this baby and move on. I will miss my 4-wheel drive. It's a gas hog, but I trust it to get me around in the crappy weather. Right now, she's getting a nasty greasy film on the inside of the windows when we run the heater, and it's worse when we run the defroster. It makes it difficult to drive when the window gets covered with this stuff, especially at night when the lights reflect back into it. Please pray that we make the right decision here and the financing comes through for it.

    I hope everyone has a wonderful New Years. Our church is having a watch night and a lock in for the youth. I'll be going to it for a while on New Year's Eve and then coming back the next morning to make waffles for the youth. It will be fun.

  •  Hello, and Merry Christmas to everyone. I was searching the web for a nice Nativity picture to put on my blog when I came across this web site for the Sand Nativity of Jesolo. This is a place in Italy that has different artists come in every year to sculpt images of the Nativity story in a huge sand pit as a fundraiser for different charities around Italy. It's pretty awesome. They sculpt a new Nativity scene each year. There are no photos there yet of this year's scenes, but scenes from the past are pretty cool.

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    Here is a scene from 2002 of a pregnant Mary and Joseph approaching the city of Bethlehem on their journey to the census. I just love how the artists have the windows lit up.

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    Here is the one that attracted me to the site to begin with. This is from 2003. Look at the detail!

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    And here's another of the shepherd's in awe at the news of Jesus' birth. I just love how all their jaws are dropped. There's also light eminating from their campfire.

    There are many more images from the past several years on display at Jesolo Tourism site.

    I hope that while we are engulfed in the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, with the shopping and the parties and the church and school activities, that you'll take time to reflect upon the REAL reason for the season: that God came to earth as man that He to take on our transgressions. Without Jesus Christ, there is no reconciliation with the Father God. I hope more than anything else this Christmas that you will know the peace and love that comes with having Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior.


    Now for a funny story: I got to speak with my daughter Shannon last night. Our gifts to them arrived via FedEx yesterday. She and her husband just moved into a new house, so they don't have their Christmas tree up yet and she's been putting presents in the office. So far, my nearly 3-year-old granddaughter has been pretty good about not messing with the gifts. Shannon said shortly after she put our gifts in with the others, Leighann came into the living room wearing this cute new outfit (Disney Princess pajamas) modeling them for everyone (she loves to do fashion shows of her new clothes). Shannon, who has a terrible time about keeping out of presents until Christmas day herself, was at first giddy that she could see what we sent her without getting into trouble for opening our presents early. Shannon went into the office to find that her daughter hadn't opened any of the presents except the ones that had just arrived and then ONLY the ones that were intended for her. HOW DID SHE KNOW??? Shannon and I are both puzzled.


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    Have a very merry Christmas
    and a happy New Year!

  • Which candidate is for you?

    With the presidential caucuses just weeks away, we in Iowa have been getting bombarded with politicaly ads. I'm sure most of anyone in the United States that pays attention to the news knows that few weeks ago, Mitt Romney led the polls here in Iowa, but recently he's been surpassed by Mike Huckabee.

    My husband found this neat questionnaire from USA Today that helps pinpoint which candidate most supports your views based on the answers you give. Some of the questions were pretty tough because there were more than one answer I agreed with, but I had to choose which I thought was probably the best.

    Follow this link to the quiz that will help you decide: USA Today Presidential Candidate Match Game

    BTW, my 1, 2 and 3 choices ended up being Huckabee, Tom Tancredo (who I believe has dropped out) and Romney. I was leaning that way anyway. I thought about Fred Thompson, but after visiting a couple of his web sites, I decided his answers seemed a little too canned and insincere.

  • Hodgepodge

    • With just over 6 weeks until the caucuses, Iowa is bombarded with political ads, and they are getting more and more frequent. I'm sure by Christmas, every other ad will be for someone wanting to be president. Caucuses are Jan. 3, I think.
    • Although we have lived here nearly 12 years, this will be the first caucus I will attend. We moved here immediately following the caucus in 1996. I didn't quite understand the caucus process in 2000 and didn't attend, forgetting that while we have a primary later in the year, we don't get to vote for president at the primary. In 2004, I was sick on caucus night, so I didn't go. By then I'd learned that the caucus is where all the Repbulicans in town gather in one place, all the Democrats in another, and they have a big meeting debating which party candidate we should put on the ballot and then vote on it at the end of the nite. There are no voting booths. It's like a town hall meeting. It will be interesting to actually participate in one this year.
    • The weather man is predicting snow on Wednesday.
    • We have no plans for Thanksgiving day itself. We rarely get a whole day that neither of us has to do anything, so I think we'll just sit home and enjoy it. I may make hubby his favorite beef and noodles for dinner or just a ham steak and a few Thanksgiving-style sides. My friend "L" invited us to her house, but I'm liking the idea of puttering around my own house doing my own thing all day.
    • My friend "L" and I will venture out early Friday morning for our annual tradition of bargain hunting on Black Friday. We stick to the smaller towns where the crowds are not vicious. We made the mistake of going to Des Moines one year. We got there waaay too late for the good bargains and the lines at the registers were hours long. Not again.
    • Some malls are opening at midnight Friday morning. We are toying with the idea of whether we are capable of handling starting shopping at midnight and going until 6 or 7 a.m. We'll make that final call when we talk Thursday afternoon to plan our shopping strategies. Luckily, I've scheduled myself off on Friday so I can come home to sleep regardless of when we get started.
    • I hope everyone who is traveling for the holiday gets to where you are going and back safely. Happy Thanksgiving.

  • Welcome to my new granddaughter

    Welcome to the world Grandbaby #3

    Dionna Dawn

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    November 14, 2007
    10:21 a.m.
    5 lbs. 11 oz.
    19.75 inches